| EAGLEONE | -- 06-07-2007 @ 5:13 PM |
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My husband left me one month ago and two weeks after that he lost his dad. He said that he couldn't take living with me anymore. He said that when I got angry I said damaging things to him. He did not work, he will not go to church with me and he often shut me out of conversation with him. This is really said because we are both ministers. Also, he tended to flirt with other women and gather female friends around him. I told him that he was a fake preacher in a moment of anger and he has never let me forget it. I don't know what else to do. Every time I tell him how I feel about things he gets defensive and its like I can't say anything. He recently told me that he failed at our marriage and wants us to get divorced. We have two children. Please pray! They shall mount up on wings as eagles. This message was edited by EAGLEONE on 6-7-07 @ 5:23 PM
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| okice | -- 06-09-2007 @ 12:40 PM |
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I am stunned with the actions of these so called men of GOd!! My husband too is threatening to leave me after 25yrs. 3 kids and says he is a devoted "Christian". He also said that he couldn't take living with me anymore, shuts me out of any conversation with him. He to tends to flirt with other women and gather female friends around him, those that will comfort him. Every time I tell him how I feel about things he gets defensive, violent, and he even began to shake with eyes bugging out one time. He tells me to shut-up and quit nagging!I can't say anything either. He curses himself and our marriage, talks negative all day. He quit reading the Bible and refuses to read and pray with me or our children. Lets Pray together. I beleive and the word tells me to find my strength in the Lord, to trust and obey HIM! Be the moon Reflect the Son!
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| EAGLEONE | -- 06-12-2007 @ 10:56 AM |
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A call to prayer means just this. Dear Heavenly Father I thank you for the time that I have had with my husband and my family. Father God although I would like for my family to be together Lord it is not my will but thine own will be done. Lord I just ask that if I have to walk away, I pray that you will give me the strength to do so. I also pray that if it's your will for me to wait on you for reconciliation I pray that you will give me the strength to do that. Lord I want to be pleasing to you, most of all. Lord I ask that you will forgive me for the wrong things that I done in my marriage to my husband. Lord I pray that you will bless me not to fall into condemnation about such things. Bless me to know that anyone in Christ is a new creature, old things have passed away, behold all things have become new. Father I pray that you will lead me into a clear path because of the enemy. Lord I truly praise you because you are worthy to be praised. Hide me in thy secret place so that I may find rest. Hide my husband too. Give him a mind to seek you with all his heart. Give him a mind to be obedient to your word too. Lord bless our little children in the midst of this. I pray all of these things in Jesus name. Amen. They shall mount up on wings as eagles.
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| okice | -- 06-13-2007 @ 11:55 AM |
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Ok Amen and allow these men to run out of their own resources and find YOU! Be the moon Reflect the Son!
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| cindydg | -- 06-15-2007 @ 4:53 PM |
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Bless both your hearts...I hadn't been to this message board for awhile, and happened to have found this discussion. I just prayed for your marriages, and will keep doing so as the Lord brings them to mind. I have a fairly solid Christian marriage, just celebrated 28 yrs. But I have walked w/ close friends and relatives through what you are dealing with. Most of these dear women maintained a level of honor and respect for their husbands w/ the kids, protecting them from further damage. Very wise! I trust you all are doing this, as you intercede for your mates. Keep standing in faith! In Pursuit, Cindy
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| okice | -- 06-15-2007 @ 7:20 PM |
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Thank you for your pray and comment. I am standing with Gods covenent and paln for marriages and I look to Him EVERY Minute for strength. I CAN'T do it without HIM. It hurts me and it hurts to watch my husband self destruct. The devil is working over time here. Be the moon Reflect the Son!
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| EAGLEONE | -- 08-03-2007 @ 10:07 AM |
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Hello, I have a praise report. My husband came home on July 22. He said that God had convicted his heart about the situation. Thanks for your prayers! They shall mount up on wings as eagles.
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