Im requesting prayer that I can get rid of this anger and hurt. This July will be 2 yrs that Ive been divorced. About 4 months after the divorce me and the x-wife got back together to see if we can make it work. We where together for about a year when she left again. She said that I never made her feel as if she was number 1. One of the reason she broke up again is because I wouldnt tell my family about us. I took her back several times in the past and I didnt want to tell the family yet just in case she leaves again. I feel hurt and betrayed by this woman. How can someone say they love you and just call it quits so easily? She found a boyfriend about 2-3 months after we split. He has semi long hair, not shaven and wears clothing that she didnt want me to wear. Hes nothing what she likes in a man. My heart is crushed and I say things about him and her to make her feel hurt. I know its not right but I want her to feel how sad and hurt I am. I ask that God can take this hurt, pain and angry feeling away. I took her back because I thought that was what God wanted me to do. I was wrong again. Our greatest problem was that we could not communicate with each other. I also ask for prayer for her. She was raised in church and now she has strayed. She did some things during our marriage where I feel that she doesnt think shes worthy of him. I pray that she makes it back to God and all the pain and hurt she has in her heart from our marriage and her childhood goes away. I think I still love her but I dont want to get stung again. Thanks for reading.
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quote: Im requesting prayer that I can get rid of this anger and hurt. This July will be 2 yrs that Ive been divorced. About 4 months after the divorce me and the x-wife got back together to see if we can make it work. We where together for about a year when she left again. She said that I never made her feel as if she was number 1. One of the reason she broke up again is because I wouldnt tell my family about us. I took her back several times in the past and I didnt want to tell the family yet just in case she leaves again. I feel hurt and betrayed by this woman. How can someone say they love you and just call it quits so easily? She found a boyfriend about 2-3 months after we split. He has semi long hair, not shaven and wears clothing that she didnt want me to wear. Hes nothing what she likes in a man. My heart is crushed and I say things about him and her to make her feel hurt. I know its not right but I want her to feel how sad and hurt I am. I ask that God can take this hurt, pain and angry feeling away. I took her back because I thought that was what God wanted me to do. I was wrong again. Our greatest problem was that we could not communicate with each other. I also ask for prayer for her. She was raised in church and now she has strayed. She did some things during our marriage where I feel that she doesnt think shes worthy of him. I pray that she makes it back to God and all the pain and hurt she has in her heart from our marriage and her childhood goes away. I think I still love her but I dont want to get stung again. Thanks for reading.
I am so sorry that you are experiencing this kind of pain. I have been through a few abusive relationships and it is not easy I know.I pray that she will see that the grass is not always greener on the other side as Satan so loves to entice us to believe! The important thing is to realize that you are healthy to be experiencing anger. Heated fellowship as I like to refer to it. It is important to know how to control it though. Cast it like a fishing net to our heavenly father and watch what happens. If she does not return, then it is important to know that she may never return. This does not mean that you will never love again, it very well may mean that God would like some time with you. I took 1 year to be with no one but my Lord and Saviour and it was the best year of my life! To fully indulge in his word and to let all outside distractions fall by the wayside. I also joined a bible study group called "The Christian Surfers", I did not surf but to them it did not matter.This did me so much good because I healed inside and realized that I can only control my actions not those of others and I also came to terms that I was allowing men to abuse me. I never had a earthly father from about 12yrs on up due to a nasty divorce and I had to come to terms with maybe I was seeking that Daddy that I never had.I was making a lot of bad choices and I regret a lot of them but it is important to know that when our parents forsake us or our spouses forsake us then the Lord takes us up! I had the best Daddy anyone could ever want I just did not know it till now.Singleness is a gift from God and I know it feels miserable at times but if you can look at it from a different perspective, it is a gift of time with him to put things in perspective in your life. To put your ducks in a row so to speak. Hang in there and I pray God's will in your life!
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